I once met a man named Travis. We exchanged numbers and set up a date. Little did I know..
I showed up and we sat and made small talk on the sofa. We continued to talk and Travis got me something to drink. It was Kool-Aid. While I am not a snob, since I am no longer six years old, I definitely thought a more appropriate date drink would have been a nice wine. Hell I would’ve settled for Moscato and I absolutely loathe Moscato. Nervous, I lit a cigarette and started to smoke. Thirty seconds later, Travis turned to me and asked me for a cigarette because he was “all out”. Encouraged to make the best of this date, I willingly gave him one. Please do not get me wrong. I am a very generous and giving person, but asking me for a cigarette and what happened next blew my mind. Travis goes into his room and fumbles around while I sit in the living room in Grande Dame manor while his roommate and 4 friends enjoy a card game.
I should’ve mentioned that earlier, but when I got to his house I walked in we stopped at the roommates little fete of card games and he showed me to the bathroom. Travis did not so far as introduce me to anyone, and in my book, that is just plain bad form.
When Travis came back from his room, he sat next to me on the sofa and in his hand was a pack of Newports that looked half full. One, I hate Newports. They are tacky and as a black man, It is too cliche for anyone black to smoke them. Two, He asked me for one of my cigarettes and he had half a pack?! I asked him about it, and his response was that he was saving them for later. I shrug it off and enthusiastically throw myself back into this date. (more…)